Taking advantage of the village

I read a headline about parenting- probably on Huffingtonpost's Facebook page about a mother asking where the village is? I didn't read it though.  I am assuming it was about a mom who doesn't really have anyone to help her. And I think many people are in the same boat as her. I have heard it from parents time and time again, that they feel so alone, can't rely on anyone to look after their child. I am one the fortunate parents who still have a village to help raise my Squeak. We are surrounded by wonderful family, amazing friends and even awesome neighbours who take an interest in her.

Just after the long weekend my Squeak spent the rest of the week with my mom, sister-in-law, my grandmother and her two cousins at the cottage. How amazing is that? My child had the opportunity to spend a few days at her favourite place, surrounded by nature, water and wonderful people who love and care about her so much, while mom and dad had to go back to the hot, stinky city, and work. Without a village of people to help me out, I don't know what I would do, and I am so grateful because I know some people just don't get help.

My Squeaky did have some issues staying the few days without mom and dad. She had the most trouble at night because she wanted her

"Mommy cuddles" and my husband and I did have a few phone calls telling us that she wanted to come home, but the very next morning, she would be fine and having fun.

I did find it hard to let go, but I knew she would enjoy her time at the cottage with her cousins. I missed her so much because it was so quiet at our house. I almost didn't know what to do. But I managed. And so did she. Sometimes you have to trust the village to take care of your child, it shows strength and courage and faith.

Happy start to the summer. xo MumsyMess

Shari Nelson is an advertising sales rep at City Parent and a contributor to the magazine's social media, including Facebook and Twitter. She has a background in Early Child Care Education, a 4-year-old daughter and a 9-year-old dog.